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How to Feel Cosy and Calm When You Need It Most

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Samuel Brent
Samuel Brent
Sam is a born and bred North Londoner. Growing up in Archway, attending primary school at Montem Juniors in Holloway, and secondary school at Acland Burghley in Tufnell Park. After success with his A-Levels at LA SWAP, he studied film at the London College of Printing (later the London College of Communication) in the Elephant and Castle and then Clerkenwell. This led to working with the Guardian in Farringdon, and a career in Journalism. After years of a miss-spent youth in Camden Town, Sam now lives in Belsize Park with his wife Marina and their two children, Esme and Primrose. Samuel enjoys Gardening and cycling, and is an avid Arsenal fan and works out of his office in Shoreditch.

Stress can affect us all, but fortunately, there are ways to reduce and manage it. In this article, we’re looking at simple hacks on how to promote relaxation, even on difficult days.

Create a Warm and Inviting Space to Relax In

Transforming your home into a cosy retreat, means that even when life’s stresses are getting the better of you, you’ll have your own private sanctuary to rest and recharge.

The great news is, you don’t need to completely overhaul your home’s interior to do this, you can simply tweak your existing space to make it cosier.

relaxing living space
Warm lighting and plants at home creates a peaceful place to destress

Lighting plays a big role in creating the right atmosphere. Rather than relying on harsh overhead lighting, try to layer lighting by introducing a floor lamp or table lamp or even string fairy lights to soften the ambience. You should also switch cool, white bulbs for warm, yellow bulbs for a mellow glow.

Adding depth with different textured soft furnishings like throws and cushions can also add instant cosiness, especially when you choose snuggly materials, such as faux fur or real wool. Meanwhile, houseplants have been shown to reduce stress and improve mental health.

Little finishing touches, such as scented candles, favourite books, photos of loved ones, and calming artwork will enhance the space and make it feel more personal.

cup of tea before bed
Herbal tea is known to help you relax

Soothe Your Mind with Simple Evening Rituals

Sleep is key to feeling mentally and physically refreshed but stress can sometimes prevent us from getting a good night’s sleep. Evening rituals are a great way to combat this and calm the mind before bed.

Avoid spending time on electronic devices like phones and tablets before bed, and instead try activities such as gratitude journaling, stretching or meditation. These simple rituals signal to the mind that it’s time to relax and can also help you let go of the day’s stresses and irritations. If you’re prone to rumination or find falling asleep a struggle, quiet activities like that engage the mind, such as reading or listening to calming music can help you switch off.

Try to stick to a similar bedtime most nights wherever possible, and build a consistent bedtime routine so that your mind and body get the message that it’s time for sleep. For example, taking a bath or sipping on a warm cup of sleep tea can become a gentle, comforting ritual that signals the end of the day.

woman relaxing on park bench
Sitting in nature is calming

Mindful Habits to Help You Feel Calm Anytime

Practising small but effective mindfulness techniques can bring an added calm to any moment of the day. Whether you need to take a moment during your lunch break on a busy work day or want to decompress on your journey home, there are lots of simple little techniques that you can incorporate into your daily routine that will help you feel calmer.

You might want to try breathing exercises or visualisation, both of which can be done anywhere, anytime, even if you only have a spare minute or two. Physical activity is also a great way to bring yourself back to the present and release stress. This might be anything from a brisk walk, a few laps of your local pool or a dance around your living room. The important thing is to find something that works for you.

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